Kissing - Ramon Some More
The first kiss happens in the rain. It is clumsy, desperate, and lasts exactly four seconds. Critics panned it as “performative” and “physically uncomfortable.” Roger Ebert famously wrote that the kiss “had all the passion of two mannequins colliding in a windstorm.”
In the pantheon of early 2000s indie cinema, few scenes have managed to straddle the line between cringe-comedy and genuine tenderness quite like the climactic moment of The Valencia Diversion —colloquially known by fans as the “Ramon kissing scene.” Kissing Ramon Some More
To everyone’s surprise, the post went viral. Within weeks, fan edits appeared on YouTube and TikTok featuring the song “Crush” by Cigarettes After Sex. The hashtag #KissRamonSomeMore has since accumulated over 40 million views. The first kiss happens in the rain
It may not be the most elegant kiss in cinema. But it might be the most honest. And honestly, we could all use some more of that. Within weeks, fan edits appeared on YouTube and
“In 2008, every movie kiss had to look like The Notebook —epic, fluid, and obviously choreographed,” Dr. Friel explains. “But the Ramon kiss is different. Mike’s hand shakes. Ramon accidentally bumps noses. They stop to breathe. It’s real . In a post- Fleabag world, audiences crave emotional clumsiness. We want to see people figuring it out in real time.”
“You mean kiss Ramon some more? [Laughs] In a heartbeat. I texted Javier [Soto] last week. He’s a theater director in Barcelona now. He said, ‘Tell them we never stopped kissing.’ I think that’s a yes.” The Fan Edit That Changes Everything The most famous fan creation is a 12-minute short titled Más , by YouTuber “Quiet Violence.” It loops the original kiss, but slowly adds layers of audio: a heartbeat, the sound of rain turning into a roaring ocean, and finally, a whispered conversation recorded via AI voice cloning that imagines what Mike and Ramon say after the cut. Mike (AI): “I’m sorry. I don’t know how to do this.” Ramon (AI): “Then don’t. Just stay.” It is haunting. It is artificial. And it has been viewed three million times. A Cultural Reckoning Why do we need to kiss Ramon some more? Perhaps because the original kiss ended too soon. In 2008, queer indie romances were still required to be either tragic or purely comedic. The Valencia Diversion tried to live in the middle—a place of nervous, banal intimacy.





